by Marzia Nawrozi
As all we know societies and people are different, some parents are as strict about their children as they control all their actions and works. There are some ideas about if it is good to be too coarse about what your children do and with whom they are friends.
Sharifa Rahmani, a senior in Michigan believes that being too strict about children has a bad result for their future. Rahmani said that it is good to be careful about what your kids do, but you shouldn’t let them know that you’re watching them. Rahmani knows some students whose parents even don’t let them to go out with their friends. When these kids see that the others have this freedom and they don’t, they get inferiority complex and it decreases their self confidence.
It has been shown that most of the people who become criminals had a bad childhood and strict or careless families. To have a good society and successful adults for future, parents should understand their job and don’t be so strict or so careless about their children.
Some people believe being strict helps them have successful children.
For example, if your kid doesn’t make good grades at school and you say nothing to him, of course he won’t try to improve his grades. Also, if your kid goes to a party and you don’t care who is there or what they will be doing, maybe he or she will fall to peer pressure. Friends have an important influence on children’s lives and behavior. If your kid has friends who use drugs and you don’t care, maybe it will happen to your kid too.
